Election Peace Challenge Day 7
Many years ago, at my first real writing job, I worked with a crusty older man whose nickname was Rocky. One day, after writing my first radio ad, I took the copy into his office for his approval. I trembled as I handed it to him, wondering how much he would bash me and my novice writing. Then I held my breath.
He read through the ad, sat silent for a moment, and then looked me in the eye.
“You’ve done the most difficult thing,” he said. “You’ve faced the blank page.”
Exhale.
The ad needed work, no doubt about it. But Rocky didn’t demean me or my efforts. By the time I left his office with his edits and suggestions, I was ready to face the blank page again and again.
He made me feel respected at a time when I could have felt small. I don’t know how he felt about it, or if he ever gave it another thought, but that brief exchange gave me a lot of peace. And years later, it still does.
So here’s the challenge for today:
Show some respect to a person who may feel afraid.
Seek out someone who may be feeling low, and give them a few words of encouragement. Not false or empty praise, but real regard.
Whether it’s a server in a restaurant, the cashier at the checkout counter, or a member of your own family, pay attention to what they do well and show your admiration.
You never know. What you say to them may stay with them for decades. And it will undoubtedly lead to a more peaceful day for you.
Take a deep breath. It’s going to be okay.
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